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Posted in ColoSinglemom on Apr 17, 2007... modified on Apr 17, 2007

Single Mom with a Slightly Hopeless Situation...

Posted in ColoSinglemom on Apr 17, 2007

I am a single mother to a 6 month old baby girl.  Her dad and I broke up before I found out I was pregnant, and he did not want me to keep the baby.  I did anyway.

Since then, I have had nothing but financial trouble--I was too sick to work while I was pregnant.  Then I lost most of my business (I'm in real estate).  Then, I gave birth, and then, I had to stay home with the baby.  I am just now finding affordable day care and starting to work again, but am faced with an IMMENSE amount of bills that I don't think I can dig my way out of.

The hospital bill is $14,500.  My tax bill is $7,000 (I had that money saved, but used it for medical and baby expenses).  My mortgage is $1400.  My other bills add up to about $2000 per month--and I have only made $4,000.00 this year, plus a few hundred bucks in child support (the guy doesn't make much $$).

I don't know what to do.  I am absolutely willing to work, but don't think I can make enough to dig us out.  I don't want to have my home forclosed upon.  I don't want to be in this situation, and it doesn't seem fair that just because I decided to KEEP a baby that suddenly, I am poor.

Anything anyone is willing to contribute would be greatly appreciated, and will most definitely not be forgotten.  I WILL start making money again, and I will either pay back or pay forward anything I am given.

Thanks so much.

Marie,  Denver, CO

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